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Natural Brownies - Journey to Natural Hair: 8 Great Oils for Natural Hair: I have been using oil on my hair for as long as I remember. However it is have been in the form of an oil sheen, not the best product but it...

Real Talk: Talking about: Looking for Someone

Real Talk: Talking about: Looking for Someone: Of course my first post will be about something we all have to deal with...Dating. These days its so hard to find someone who fits the crite...

Real Talk: Talking About: Poetry

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Real Talk: Talking About: People and their opinions

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Real Talk: Talking About: Trust

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My Thoughts tuesday

    So today I came across a couple interviews that made me cringe. I know this is the age of  the ratchets, and even though we all can honestly say that these ratchet hoes irritate us, we can't turn away and that's why they continue to act ratchet. (Disclaimer: all of these interviews ARE NOT from today but they are within the last two weeks, and I own NONE of these videos)

Che Mack at 105.1's The breakfast club. Now I know you all are saying "Who the hell is she?" and I don't blame you for asking. she had a good two episodes on love and hip hop atl and I don't know why any one would want to interview her. She calls he self a rapper and smh SHE CAN'T RAP. I honestly think they called her here just to fuck with her. She had nothing to talk about.

  My girl buckeey. I like her, I really do but baby girl: you sounded like a hater talking about erica. I'm glad that you have a man though because i just want to see you move on from scrappy's trifiling self. You was ratchet tho.

The reason why i love QB is not only is she a good rapper, she is above the ratchet, loud ass arguing. Lady red, I love you but I was soooo disappointed. QB pulled ya card. You let her pull you out of character. You really said you fuck for stuff?? and.......What the jell do you have on. I can't wait to see this battle on august third. This is going to be a good one

Hit the floor Recap (the important parts)

I was absolutely floored at the episode of hit the floor that aired this week. I am going to quickly recap some main events (not in order):

• Ahsha and Jelena are both in the running for the All-star game, and due to no one knowing who she is, she is losing terribly in the polls.When Olivia first suggests that she "leak" her secret to the press Ahsha is hesitant but eventually she caves when: 

• She walks into something she shouldn't have at her moms house. 

•  She is tired of losing to Jelena

• After finding the microphone she was looking for in Ahsha's house Mia gives it to Oscar so that she can be off the hook, and skip town.
• In the wake of drugs being found in Terrance's system he was benched, which led to the devil's winning streak ending. This stressed Coach Davenport out so he goes to see Sloane. They head to the bedroom after avoiding a really important conversation, and Ahsha walks in and sees them, and decides to spill the secret. This causes a media frenzy for the family.
• Jelena is on a roll this episode moving from character to character meddling in things. Some for the better and some for the worst.        

• To help Raquel end her troubles with her sons father Mickey she sets him up to be humiliated.         

• After Terrance gets benched she uses he magic on Coach D to get him to "un-bench" her man. 

• When she learns from Olivia that Ahsha told her to leak the secret about her father to the press she texts Ahsha's boyfriend German and tells him to ask Ahsha about what happened during the blackout in the elevator

• Kyle meets a guy who knows a little too much about her past that freaks her out. . Now the reason why this is important to me is because during the black out she rattles off some number to German and says its the price of freedom. I really want to know what exactly this girl is into that is making her do some of the things that she is doing. 
  
• Terrance goes to put what looks like an engagement ring in Jelena's locker and comes across a bottle of the drug that was found in his system.
• THE DRAMATIC ENDING: Kyle gets a threatening note from a anonymous person. German confronts Ahsha about the blackout and she reveals that she and derek kissed this leads to their breakup and she leaves crying, and her mom is looking for her. Jelena makes some deal with oscar and she leaves the stadium. As Sloane is confronting Olivia, Pete comes in looking for Ahsha, and then reveals that a devil girl was found floating under the Vincent-thomas bridge.

I can almost bet money that the devil girl that was found was former devil girl Mia. I honestly think that either Oscar got rid of her because she knew too much or she got dressed in her devil girls uniform and committed suicide. 

Love & Hip Hop Atlanta Recap (the important parts)

      Let me start by saying this show never disappoints. Every week I say it doesn't get more ratchet than this, and every week I end up saying, they really done it now. So this week starts with Kirk & Rasheeda. Rasheeda's mother just rode over Kirk's bike and set it on fire (I love it). after she speeds off he lets Rasheeda know that because that is her mother he will give her a pass but had it been someone else he would've "F**ked them up" I don't believe that for one minute Kirk with your milk dud head ass but okay. Rasheeda tells Kirk that she had been considering divorce and he seems shocked like he didn't have a threesome with hot tub groupies at Benzino's cabin. What bothers me the most about him is he is really trying to act like Rasheeda said : "go have sex with someone else" which she did not.
     Then we go to Erica and Mi Mi at the golf course (random) and Erica is venting to Mi Mi about scrappy and how he lets Momma Dee say what ever she wants to Erica. Then both her and Mi Mi share stories about how both of their babies fathers use money and in Mi Mi's case a BMW to try and control them. Mi Mi then speaks about how she wanted a boob job after nursing the oh so adorable Eva for three years. Though it's not really the type of conversation to have over golf, if they like it I love it.
      Now its time for the real show to start. Joseline has yet again called Stevie to lunch. I could have sworn they lived together but maybe I am imagining things. she goes in her purse and  says she has a surprise for him and my heart dropped because i thought she was going to propose with the ring she bought in the last episode. False Alarm! She pulls out plane tickets and a wad of cash (where the hell she get that from) and tells him she wants to make a music video in Puerto Rico. While Stevie thinks that she is not giving him enough time to get everything together, Joseline says she has it under control so Stevie says he's going to let her be in control. THEN, on the other side of Stevie's double life, he meets Mi Mi for drinks. Pause. Mi Mi pisses me off. She is always saying, "I am not with Stevie, we just co-parent" How does having drinks with this man benefit your daughter? It doesn't. But Stevie tells Mi Mi that he would be going to Puerto Rico to shoot Joseline's music video which Mi Mi doesn't really care about, but wouldn't try to stop it since she gets a cut of the money made from it too. He then gives her a purse and (surprise, surprise) the wad of cash Joseline gave him for her half of the video.  He is the absolute worse, he is Tightening the budget on Joseline's video just so he can try to make Mi Mi happy, not knowing that all Mi Mi is going to do with the money is get a boob job.
      Then a lot of things happen like scrappy goes to rehab, Stevie and Joseline arrive in Puerto Rico, and Rasheeda files for a separation while Kirk wonders what he did that was sooooo bad that Rasheeda wants to leave him. He is an idiot, you are all over the blogs with other women, you always come equipped with a lame excuse and you expect her to want to  stay married to you, and you're doing this while shes pregnant with your child, the child you pretty much told her to get rid of. Nothing that happens after this is really worth speaking about until you get to Karlie Redd. Oh Karlie, Karlie, Karlie. She calls Benzino and gives him a sob story about how her implant is leaking. When he asks what she wants him to do about it she "thinks that maybe he can help finance her new implants" like she is talking about a car loan or something. She promises to "be nice" have sex with him and he agrees to pay for her surgery.
       Now at the end of this episode, Joseline proposed to Stevie and he looks scared as all hell. He looks like he wants to run. I feel so bad for her because she is really trying to settle down with him and for some reason she doesn't see what an asshole he is. Next week is the season finale and we get to see Stevie says yes to joseline's proposal, and Kirk's attempt to get Rasheeda back and hopefully K Michelle will make an appearance because no episode is complete without K.

My trend monday: Maxis and slits

If you are like myself, than you like to dress to impress. If again you are like myself than you don't like to spend a whole lot of money on clothes. I have a couple spots that you can find a lot of the latest trends for a low price that won't  kill your pockets.

This trend is actually two trends in one that i have fell in love with this season, and that is the maxis and slits. Whether it is a maxi dress or a maxi skirt I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE a maxi with a slit. My go to places for this is Gojane.com, and Rainbow.

1. You can find this sexy, double slit maxi at Gojane.com  for only $19.95, you can find the shoes at gojane.com as well for $35.90. This is great for a night out on the town. If you love this as much as i do just click on the links.   Dress Shoe
   
2. Now for those of you who like a good maxi skirt will love this double slit maxi skirt. This skirt is at rainbow for only $14.99! It doesn't get any better than this. The link for this is Maxi Skirt
   
   
   
   3. For my plus size ladies, who says you can't enjoy a nice slit. This dress is at rainbow for $15.00. Again ladies, it doesn't get much better than this. The link: Maxi Dress

Tsu Surf vs. Hollow da Don

This one is my favorite battles from the two that have been posted from NOME 3 so far. Shout out to smack and URL TV for setting this one up. If i had to choose a winner, I would have to say Hollow took this one 2-1. I think that Hollow gave that first round to surf it was weak. The last two rounds Hollow came out swinging, even though that drake scheme Tsu came out with in his second round was fire. At the end of the day, hollow won which i personally didn't think would happen, especially with me being the Tsu surf fan that i am, i was shocked it went down that way.

I wanna know what ya'll think about this one